Pam,

I have never replied to your posts before, but in reading last night I came across something you said, and it feels as if our situations have a commonality.

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You know I wonder if she will live up to in reality the picture he has always held in his mind of her? She was his first intimacy, and when we were dating he talked about her, never by name, and said he met someone one time he should have married. But I don't think he can live with her temper and the screaming. So I guess we'll see. She dumped him that first time and I felt he sort of put her on a pedestal or enshrined her or something.





Stop by my thread, read about my sitch and let's chat if you feel you could use a new friend.

Warmly,




~~Janehiswife~~ "Who in the world do you run to when the only person in the world who can stop your tears, is the one who made you cry?" ~Author Unknown