Clean Slate pt 3. (Advice on Scenario pt 25)

[OrangeK]

Thanks for the support folks.



Ovvr – No, she hasn’t done really anything to “move it forward” regarding the D. She has been just reactionary. Tried to get more money from child support, that is about all she has done.
There was a different judge on Sept 11th at the “Final” divorce hearing. He said he was going to recalculate the numbers, I had previously submitted motions to have my child care payments credited to my child support. Since Sept 11th I have not heard a peep from the courts. Not regarding my motions, any re-calculations, or any further decisions or movement on my divorce case. I am actually hoping that its been delayed because the original judge is getting caught up with the case. He was much more involved, engaged and fair in my opinion. The 2nd judge seemed lazy and awaiting retirement.



MTB – Thanks for touching base, I had been wondering how you were doing. It was nice to see an update from you. I agree. I actually fell in a bit with the “I miss you” temp check, I called her out on it. I said didn’t believe it was a text to a friend mis-sent. She stood her ground claiming it was, I said it was no big deal, just a misunderstanding. She sticks to her stories, lies or not, so there was no point in pushing the issue.


This weekend she did a bit more, texting me about “a new guy at her work who knows of my parents, has a camp house up near their house it’s a small world!”

As well as “Ill be out once the new guy at work finishes up with his client! Ill see you soon to get S3, CANT WAIT TO SEE HIM!!!”

So more of the “My STBXH is dangerous and needs a TRO, but ill cheerfully text him 3x a week!”
*OrangeK rolls eyes*


Lastly, I was contacted by someone from EX-FIL’s past. With very damning evidence that STRONGLY reinforces my suspicion he is a dangerous person for S3 to be around. I will be looking further into this and very likely filing an RO against him to not be near S3. Very dark, damning things.
What a sick world we live in….



Other than that, things are business as usual. Dating Mary is going well, continuing to grow, but I do have my defenses up a bit too.

S3 has been doing really well, school loves him. 1st Dentist Appt. soon.