Okay... I need help. DBing just went right out the window. My kids came back from a day with their dad and started talking about having Thanksgiving dinner with this family. Long story short... this is the person my husband said is living upstairs with her two kids but is on medical leave and was in the hospital with pancreatic cancer. Well... apparently she is alive and well... still in the home [he had told me she moved out last week]... and well enough to be cooking dinner. OMG... are you kidding me?!?! Steve... you were dead right. I couldn’t help myself... I texted him that I didn’t want our kids around his girlfriend and how dare he, they are confused enough. Then.... I called him because I was so angry... told him I knew. He said “okay”... he would just not admit it so I yelled at him to just own up to it... he then replied “we’ll talk about it tomorrow” and I called him a piece of S#*t and hung up on him. Later on I texted him that he better be here first thing in the morning or I was coming over there to have a conversation with his girlfriend. He immediately replies... “I’ll be there at 9.” I then texted back that even if he does come here at 9, I am still going to have a conversation with his gf so if he has been lying his a** off to her, he better come clean quick. Not really sure i will do that but I really just wanted to scare him. He texted back, “I understand... I will be there at 9.” Of course, when I figured this out, I had a house full of people so I went and hid at my mother-in-law’s. If he thinks he is going to bring this woman home to meet his mom and have his gf’s kids call her grandma, he is sadly mistaken. She is almost as mad as I am. He’s been lying to her and she has been helping me with the kids whenever he is away which is A LOT.
I am so confused right now. And angry!!! What am I supposed to do when he gets here tomorrow?? I mean... there is a part of me that is not surprised but he was literally texting me two weeks ago about coming home and wanting to make things work. And a week before that crying on my shoulder telling me he used to be a good person and that he doesn’t deserve me. He’s not wrong about that. What is wrong with him? Did he really think my kids wouldn’t tell me where they were and I wouldn’t put two and two together? Okay... out of control now. I just texted him to ask him if his girlfriend might be interested in seeing that text messages he was sending me two weeks ago and that I think she will definitely enjoy reading those. HELP!!! Anyone out there. What do I do tomorrow? What do I say???
