He spent the rest of the week doing the same thing...texting me with comments about how I'm probably out on a date and/or getting laid. He was drunk Thursday night and sent me a late night text saying he had a random thought and wondered if I slept with an acquaintance that we both knew. I had not and I have no idea why this random thought came to his head.
I dropped off the kids at his place Friday. He gave me a big hug. He asked how my job search was going. While my attorney tells me not to get a job I have been looking, just to see what's out there. He told me not to worry if I don't find one soon because "no matter what happens" he's going to take care of me. He was oddly very kind and sweet.
Then the next day I sent him a text message. I was going camping, and I could not find where he put my hiking backpack. He made a comment about how I was probably going to get laid in my tent (ugh) and then was really rude and unhelpful about where my backpack could possibly be. He text me tonight with some kid related stuff and was cold and distant again. I don't know what's up with his moods. It's draining to try to keep up with him. I think I need to be better at really detaching. I think when I dropped off the kids Friday he could sense that I still wanted to be with him so he reverted back to distancing.
