So a whole day has passed and H hasn't asked how it went with the kids or anything about my discussion with them. My S has messaged me a few times today about it. I know H and S messaged back and forth a few times. Seems to me we should have a discussion about how much to say? Or is this one more thing I'm trying to control that I have no control over. I'd appreciate a few perspectives. He messaged me today that he was coming over to do the lawn. I just responded yes. I didn't see him as I was at church. I only messaged him about the status of his mom (I visited her today in the nursing home) and told him the lawn looked nice. Maybe I should have left that part out. That's been it for 2 days.
I find myself obsessing a lot about him today...what he's doing, thinking, etc. Is he true to his word that he's not pursuing a relationship, or at least open to one if the chance arises? I'm trying to keep busy to help. It's tough today, though. After today, one week down.
