I am so sorry for what you are going through. Reading your posts is very helpful yet also painful as I know too well the kind of pain you are dealing with. I feel like we are in very similar situations although you are further along this process than me. I do not know if there is an OW or OWs in my sitch but I know it is a real possibility even though he swore on our children’s lives that there is no one else...just a confused and unhappy man. Please do not beat yourself up for the recent events. You are only human...your heart as been broken...you cannot do this DB perfectly...you can only pick yourself up off the floor and start over. I am anticipating that I will need to do this myself multiple times over the coming months.
Please know that you are not alone in this and there are many, many people pulling for you. And know there is, without a doubt, a better life ahead for you...just keep DBing. ((((HUGS))))
