DB,
I get exactly what you are saying. My SIL got married today....and I’m just now seeing FB pics of the wedding and my W and S all over the place. And there’s a distinct place left vacant where I should/could be. I can’t concern myself with it.

I’m pissed to no avail to miss half my S childhood for W “happiness”

Just continue DB and practice patience.


Me - 38 W-37
S6
M 10 years T 13yrs
BD 3/18
W moves out 4/18
W files 7/18

Never waste a good crisis