I don't feel like I'm in a great place. I miss her terribly and not seeing my son every day is breaking my heart. 2018 has been the hardest and most painful year of my life. While I wish there was something I could say or do to make her realize what she is losing, to realize that this is a mistake, I know that I don't have any control over her.

I don't want this divorce, but she is already gone. Nothing I do or say is going to bring her back.


Me: Late 30s WW: Late 30s
M: 12
S: 7
BD: Late April '18 (Wife left next day)
OM confirmed: July '18 (20+ years older)

The Lord is near to the brokenhearted and saves the crushed in spirit. - Psalms 34:18