I wish you the best, but I think you are far from piecing. I get it. It’s what you really want. I was there before too. Be careful. I was duped. I was told I was a great father and husband. I was told she just needed to work through some stuff and get it together. I was told to just love her and let her heal so we could be together. I was told all these things so she could continue doing all the same bull$hit she was always doing. It was just a lot easier for her to do by having me think everything was gonna be OK. In one of your last posts in your previous thread, you mentioned she was wayward x 10, and now you think you are piecing?!?. This stuff doesn’t go away overnight. Keep your guard up, man. I tell you this because you’ve gone through a lot of hurt, and I feel like you’re setting yourself up to go through some more. You’ve got too many expectations, when you should have none...


Me: 38
W:31
Kids: S16(mine from previous R), D10, S9, S4
M: 10 years
T:12 years
BD:Jan 3, 2018
W moved out: Apr 13,2018
Filed for D: Jun 2018
D final: Sep 2019

"Surrender to the Flow"...