Thanks for chiming in on my sitch. All the people IRL that I know that have been through a divorce have said their spouse was impacted upon reflection on while going thru D process.
Currently my WAW seems to mirror everything I do. For example, my S and I made a list of our activities and events...next thing I know she did the same.
EZ my W does similar things but with a twist. I take the kids to GAL and invite her a long. Next thing you know she does the same thing, but goes out her way to let me know I am not invited.
I stand with you on this the 37 rules says you should invite them but in a way it almost seems counter productive to do so.