Thanks for chiming in on my sitch. All the people IRL that I know that have been through a divorce have said their spouse was impacted upon reflection on while going thru D process.
Currently my WAW seems to mirror everything I do. For example, my S and I made a list of our activities and events...next thing I know she did the same.
Me - 38 W-37 S6 M 10 years T 13yrs BD 3/18 W moves out 4/18 W files 7/18