To follow up on the subject of NC with your W, and the advice from D14's IC...….are there times during the 24 hr day that you and W are together in the house? I was wondering if D14 sees Mom & Dad not speaking to each other or giving any acknowledgment of their presence when in the same room. If this is the case, the atmosphere must feel very tense for everyone. It makes for some uncomfortable times around the dinner table.
This is just my opinion. If you have kids and are staying under the same roof, then for the sake of the children show a little interaction with the other spouse. Say hi, bye, pass the salt please, or something...…..just as long as the other spouse is decent and doesn't show some type of disrespectful reaction when you open your mouth.
hi sandy.
WW has moved out. according to her she found a “place to stay”. might be true or she might just be shacking with POS. the only time she spends time in the house is when i work, i do nightshift. so in the 13 hours that am gone, according to D14. there is no communication between the two of them. As i’ve said, WW’s mantra, “if she down want to talk to me then i won’t talk to her”.
if ever there’s convo between them, it always ends with WW screaming or yelling at D14, that’s why D14 just finally decided to stay in her room.
