Struggling with my parents

They only want to talk about my situation

I have told them I do not want to talk about it with them

They persist

I get frustrated

They get upset

It makes me not want to spend time with them

But they are getting older

What to do

Gordie 40s W 40s M20+ kids
2016 BD W fantasy affair w OM1 I do everything wrong
2017 I start to DB W says TLTL files for D PA w OM2
2018 I do LRT W drops filing and OM2 situation slowly improving