I’m not sure what help you need that is different with this last update?

She isn’t interested in a relationship with you but you’re still acting like she does. Stop asking where she’s going or with whom...it’s not your concern anymore. Just assume every word out of her mouth is a lie.

What have you done to work on your own issues? And how are you following the 37 rules “better”. They are for you to work on doing your own thing. How are you doing with GAL?