I just went through that whole page of quotes, that was great. Thank you. Its things like this that really make me think:
10)Assuming what they are doing and what is really going on is way different...I found all this out when he came home..you are on their minds a lot more than you think. So with that don't you want their thoughts to be either A. See what a controlling Biatch she is or B. Hey, she's totally cool, self sufficient and no pressure. That's what the OP is doing for them so it's your chance to behave the same way. -sandycay
Something about that boosts my confidence. To think he is possibly thinking about me. He said to me a week ago that he thinks about us everyday, but its complex emotions, and he misses us but feels like a middle ground between the 2 of us is too far....I know to believe nothing he says, so I think sometimes he just says whatever sounds good at the moment, but I do understand what hes saying. I want to ignite positive thoughts in him, when he thinks of me, but what I do not want to do is come off like im just ok with what he is doing, even though its completely disrespectful to me as his wife. So its hard to be "totally cool" without seeming like oh Im just totally cool with this situation. Does that make sense? I wish i could nail it down and stay consistent with it.
