Ok I will do that. I think it’s the stagnant feeling of it all. I’ve been polite to him for a month now when I leave to go GAL and it doesn’t seem to ignite anything. And then as soon as I started pulling away more I got his attention. Once I started saying less, not being as nice, he started wondering what was going on. I feel like if I’m nice he just thinks everything is great and he leaves and goes to Ow like he’s just got this great setup.
I don’t know. I don’t think I’ve found my happy medium and that’s what I need to find. Pull away but be polite. I have to work on it. I’ll practice in the mirror