Do these life events cause MLC to appear over walls they’ve created?
I'm not sure I understand exactly what you're asking, but I will say that WAS's often are not as "over" and "done" and "moving on" as the LBS thinks they are. NO MATTER WHAT THEY SAY, inside things are much different. It's a crazy hurricane of emotions inside there. They are questioning what in the world they are doing and flip-flopping 10 times a day or even an hour about it. They are torn to pieces, on the one hand they think they need to move on but on the other hand there IS a part of them telling them to go back to the M no matter how bad it may have been (and especially if it wasn't so bad). You really can't say or do anything to help her come back though, she's on her own journey and has to sort out those feelings herself. One day she may be talking recon and the next day D plans. That's how they roll. And that's why we say give them time and space and drop your expectations! Because what they are feeling today is no indication of what they will feel tomorrow or next week or month or year.
