This is all MORE HELPFUL THAN YOU COULD IMAGINE! Thank you, thank you!
Question, KitCat, tonight is actually his night. He asked to also come tomorrow night, when thats not normally his night and I said ok. Next Saturday I have a wedding so I asked if he could come. He said he could, and I guess he had to cancel plans in order to do it or something bc he mentioned that while we were arguing last night.
So tonight when he comes over, just to be clear, youre saying to show appreciation for him coming, even though its his night?
This is very very helpful, even all of you who just explained that I do have power in this, even if just over myself.
