Just found out that W sister will officially be getting married this weekend. SIL did a rush MR while MIL was still alive but this will be when it’s official. On a surface level it pains me that W no longer even gives me a courtesy notice of this event and I have to find out through a third party. Reminded blood is thicker than water....and I’m viewed as sewer water at the moment.

I caught myself wondering if this upcoming weekend festivities may prompt W memories of our MR and think of what she’s leaving behind...but snapped out of it as I know that will only lead me to a dark space.

Do these life events cause MLC to appear over walls they’ve created?


Me - 38 W-37
S6
M 10 years T 13yrs
BD 3/18
W moves out 4/18
W files 7/18

Never waste a good crisis