Actually CHL mostly drove the meeting, I occassionally requested things like the insurance and he agreed and added it.
He pretty much agreed to anything I want. We haven't actually split all the household contents but we both agreed we didn't see a problem with that so it didn't need to be a part of the agreement.
Pam
"We must be willing to let go of the life we had planned so as to have the life that is waiting for us"