Originally Posted by KitCat
Now, the hard steps.... if he if indeed coming over to watch D while you have plans make sure you make a simple statement that you appreciate his ability to be available tonight. Keep it positive... upbeat. Smile and look good....Practice several times today before he comes over the statement of appreciation so that when he arrives it feels natural
Practice this in front of a mirror. You really have to mean that you appreciate it. FORGIVE EVERYTHING ELSE. This does not mean forget. Body language and facial cues are important as well as maintaining eye contact.


"What is best for my kids is best for me"
Amor Fati
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