Husband cheated, left, trying to DB 5

[SteveLW]

From the outside looking in, does it seem like I have more power in this than I am aware of?

The power is over yourself! That is where your power is. That is what DBing is all about. Self awareness. Learning that your happiness is your own responsibility. That you have power over no one, but no one BUT YOU has power over you.

So yes......you have immense power. Over kech. Over nothing else.