Hoosjim's 16th. Looks like we're piecing, folks.

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My W, her sister, and your W all have boundary issues (they wouldn't be cheaters if they didn't, right)? Does your W know she has issues with boundaries? It's something she needs to be working on. When people discuss serious issues, they demonstrate comfort with one another, they become closer, they build trust. None of these things should be happening with your W and the OM. This guy is a rat POS, I just wouldn't be comfortable with her working there. That's the last time I'll say it.

I think that deep down, your W really does know that these calls, these get togethers are not appropriate. If you're a single gal at the office, it's still not appropriate to drink and fraternize with a married man who is your boss. They all know it's not quite right, but they all are willing to overlook b/c blahblahblah.

Everyone at the office is aware of what happened with your W and the OM, right? I think your wife needs to set new boundaries at the office (if she stays). She says she knows what boundaries to keep but from over here things are looking quite blurry.

Thanks for sharing and responding on everything Jim, it's been great for me.