I just looked it up and read about it. Wish I had read that a year ago. I think I may need to write down my boundaries and stick to them. I need to remember that the life he is living right now would not work in a healthy marriage. Or at the least the life he was living when he lived at home a month ago. I dont really know what he does now. But i know theres OW, and thats a clear boundary.
Sometimes it feels like he wants me to initiate things, but I know I shouldnt have to. He needs to take responsibility and then take action. If hes not willing to take action then its all pointless
