So even though I leave when he comes, hes still getting that glimpse into our world, he isnt fully losing anything yet.And I dont really know how to change that in our sitch.
This is part of the problem. You are trying to manipulate a change and it isn't genuine. The cycle will continue.
Your H has given you a gift. The gift of opportunity to grow and become the best Kech possible. Quit staring into the sun knowing that it hurts. You will have more influence on the outcome of your sitch than you realize.
You just posted that you don't know how to change that in your sitch. GAL, Detachment, Boundaries, Self-Improvement.
It is easy to see from the outside looking in, because emotions cause us fear. Trust the process.
Me:45 ExW:48 M:04/97 3 Bombs & 2 ReCons 1st BD 11/10 D Finalized 4/20 D-16 S-14 Going in one more round when you don't think you can. That's what makes all the difference in life.~Rocky Balboa
