Can I ask why you say D might be the destination? Not that I disagree, but it is so disheartening to hear. My H seems really confused to me, I dont think he wants a Divorce, but I do think he wants to have his cake and eat it too.
I have been so tempted to text him all morning and just say for him to stay the night tonight with me. trust me. I know this would be the worst idea. I dont know why these awful ideas pop in my head. But reading your last post just really did a number on me. Curious why you say that?