toenail, this is admirable. However, Make sure you are also ready to let her go. This is the key to getting her back. If keeping trying means pressure and pursuit then you are bringing the reality of D on faster. If you let her go (detach), move on (GAL), there is a chance she may change her mind.
I haven't been following your sitch closely, so maybe this is what you mean. But usually LBS mean they are going to pursue and pressure when they say "I'm not giving up!"
good morning steve. thanks for dropping by.
no pursuit, no pressure on my part. i have already said my piece to her, about if she wants D, i will not stop her, but i will not help facilitate it. i have let her go, dropped the rope. she is free. been NC/dark for more that two months now. only time we see each other is after D14’s IC.
GAL is what i live for. been doing it my entire life. bike/run/hike/backpacking/camping /gym/etc. only difference this time is its just me or sometimes with D14, since she really doesn’t want anything to do with WW.
for me, not giving up means being the lighthouse for WW.
