Wait months to tell your kids? That's not good. Plus you'd drop the bomb on the during the holidays? I am missing something?
I wouldn't lie to them and tell them it was mutual either.
Yeah I agree ovr. I've seen advice to do this, even when it is clearly one spouse walking away (and even having an affair!). I am not suggesting just completely outing your spouse as a lying cheater to your kids, but I am also not in favor of telling them it is mutual when it is not.
M(53), W(54),D(19) M-23, T-25 Bomb Drop - Dec.23, 2017 Ring and Piecing since March 2018
