^^^ Even though my M was dead (old R), I owe it to my kids to keep trying. I once told my W that she tried to make our M work for 15 years, and there's no way I'm just giving up after 3 months -InAMess
toenail, this is admirable. However, Make sure you are also ready to let her go. This is the key to getting her back. If keeping trying means pressure and pursuit then you are bringing the reality of D on faster. If you let her go (detach), move on (GAL), there is a chance she may change her mind.
I haven't been following your sitch closely, so maybe this is what you mean. But usually LBS mean they are going to pursue and pressure when they say "I'm not giving up!"
M(53), W(54),D(19) M-23, T-25 Bomb Drop - Dec.23, 2017 Ring and Piecing since March 2018
