Why are you still having exchanges with hi,m? Here are the texting rules:
Texts that do not ask a direct question do not get a response. If he texts a direct question, take your time. No need to rush back to him with the answer. When you do answer it should be a short a possible. Yes or no questions get yes or no answers.
If he tries to start an R texting exchange you shut it down: "I'm not ready to discuss this yet and need some time to think about before I give you an answer."
Remember, the less communication and contact the bettter!!
M(53), W(54),D(19) M-23, T-25 Bomb Drop - Dec.23, 2017 Ring and Piecing since March 2018