I know David didn't want settlement details posted so I'm posting no numbers, but he was very generous and helpful.
I have 45 days to decide if I want this house at less than we paid for it 5 years ago. He doesn't even get his full down payment back this way and no equity.
If I don't decide to buy it we sell it, I get to live in it till it sells and help with mortgage payment. Plus when it sells we split the equity 50/50 rather than pull his down payment out first.
He is going to carry me on his COBRA until he can't. He has also agreed to pay a substantial amount of money for my dental work that needs done.
We are going to jointly continue to own the horses and try to find the best solution for homes for them. Splitting the money if we sell them.
I get to keep Frostbyte.
I also get a lot of the household contents.
He was very sweet today. Guilt I suppose.
He is either going to come back over or at least call me this evening.
Pam
"We must be willing to let go of the life we had planned so as to have the life that is waiting for us"