I got home and said nothing and went into the bedroom and he left. He then texted me and said “if you have plans from now on you need to let me know. Otherwise I expect us to be a little more negotiable. I didn’t make it a big deal when you came home an hour after you said you would the other night”
I waited a while to respond and then I validated by saying, “I see what you’re saying, I’ll be more up front when I have plans”.... because I do tend to have places to go and not tell him and then when he’s late I get upset. So from now on I will be more firm on my times with him. I could have easily texted him back saying “when you say you’ll be here at a certain time you need to be here”. But I validated and left it at that. He texted back saying “I swear I was working”
I didn’t respond. Should I? I’m thinking probably not.
