W constantly texts and calls me. The last five times we talked the conversation has been about the divorce financials. She called twice tonight, but didn't leave a message and I'm not calling back. I will send email updating her on what I think about the agreement. I told her that we couldn't wait to tell D12 and D8. She wants to tell them at Thanksgiving or Christmas when they'd have time to process the info, but I think that will always associate one of those holidays to their parent's divorce. I will also reiterate that I will not tell the girls that the divorce was mutual.