Well, based on the comments here, maybe there is someone else. Like I said, I don't know and at the moment don't really care.
As mentioned in my previous posts, I am focused on me and doing my best to GAL. I am a little worried about receiving any papers regarding a D however. It is sometimes hard for me not to imagine some horrible scenario where I get taken to the cleaners and lose everything. Even though when my W moved out and mentioned her intent to file for D she told me that she did not want anything from me. Hopefully, this will be one of the rare occasions where she is being truthful, time will only tell.
Question to the board about how to deal my in laws. We have a really good relationship and on top of that, they happen to be really good friends with my parents as well. I am trying to navigate still being in contact with them without discussing the sitch or giving them anything to pass along to my W about how I am doing or what I am up to, as I have gone completely dark. I do not wish to be rude or push them away as I know that they care for me a great deal. Both of them told me individually that I will also be family no matter what happens. Do I just "take a break" from them for a while? Or do I carry on with them as usual and potentially allow them to pass information along to my W?
Not that it impacts me much one way or another, I have noticed that the temp checks from the W have ceased. I was curious based on others experience if this a sign of something to come? Potential calm before the storm? The last time I spoke to the W, she said that the D papers were coming this week. I have neither heard from the W or seen any papers. I know there is still tomorrow, but I find it strange that nothing has happened. Was this some sort of test to see if I would react to it?
