So I've decided to visit the kids and spend the entire day with them. I plan to tell them. I asked H to go, gave him a few dates, and he basically said he can't see doing that because his stress level is just simply too high. And that we can talk about the kids more but right now he's in a very very bad place mentally. I informed him that I am going to tell the kids this weekend and if he wanted to talk about the kids that's fine. He said o.k. and informed me he would be coming over to pick up a few things while I'm at work (which is fine with me), and taking care of the yard on Sunday. I plan to be gone.
I'm a bit ticked off that he can't bring himself to address this together with the kids, but I have no control over that and will just do what I think is best. Pretty anxious about it though.
