Hi focus, you are right my kids are grown and are more than capable of seeing their Dad without me being around. They are off living their own lives so it’s rare that we’re all together anyway. It just felt nice being the 4 of us together again laughing having fun. I do also like his company he’s a fun person to have around.
If I tell xh I don’t want him coming around I’ll have to tell the kids that it’s easier for me that way, that it’s too hurtful to see him when he’s clearly moving on again. I’m sure they’ll understand.
I do need to rethink my life goals. When he left the first time exercise became my thing almost to the point of obsession. It still is a huge part of my life and has helped me enormously.
Thanks again x
Me - 44 Husband - 47 D20, S18 BD - Aug 2013 Moved out - Jan 2014 OW discovered Jan 2014