Do you wish a cashier happy birthday? Are you rude to random cashiers? Do you avoid random cashiers? Do you ask random cashiers personal questions? When they ask how are you, do you tell them the truth or do do you say "Fine, or good"?
When the exchange happens, think of him as a trusted baby sitter. You are late. Download important baby things then rush out. Looking smoking hot.
When you get home, you are happy from a pleasant evening and are tired and want the sitter to leave.
"What is best for my kids is best for me" Amor Fati Link to quotes: https://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2879712