Davide, I fully understand about not wanting to see the WAS at all, oh boy, what I would give to just not have to see/text or have to do anything with him, but we have 2 children. I have thought about it too, if I were in your sitch, I would move somewhere far far away and start afresh, not because I would want to run away but because I wouldnt even waste a single minute of my life brooding over the past with triggers from the places that they were made. I recently watched the Under the Tuscan Sun, she wipes her slate clean and it pays off in such unexpected beautiful ways.
I read Vapo's response on your thread multiple times, so much to absorb from it. 'Broken attracts broken' so true, both for us until we are out of this storm and in a way about the WASs too, no?