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We had the hearing. Neither one of us got what we wanted. The judge awarded joint custody with W as primary. I get him about 1/3 of the time. Every other weekend Friday evening through Monday morning and one weekday overnight every week. Sadly, in our state that is considered a win for a father...

I've basically been in tears since walking out of the courthouse. I trust that God has a bigger plan for me and my S, but the pain of losing my wife and now 2/3 of my son's childhood feels unbearable. I have IC this afternoon and hope that I can come out of that feeling a little more able to function.


Last edited by DB346; 10/04/18 01:29 PM.

Me: Late 30s WW: Late 30s
M: 12
S: 7
BD: Late April '18 (Wife left next day)
OM confirmed: July '18 (20+ years older)

The Lord is near to the brokenhearted and saves the crushed in spirit. - Psalms 34:18