I could not depend on XH for anything before he left I did my best to walk on eggshells around xh moods and crazy behaviors it was difficult because I couldn't get any validation or help and we had 2 kids invoilved so everything was on me after time and especially after the D, XH remarried and I let go letting him go was the best thing I did its been over 10 years and xh has only disappeared and gotten worse-
Its not your fault and there is no way to reach them..they are in MLC, and many are addicted to substances ect
after the D, you may find more peace you will find ways to deal with her craziness, and not get as affected and most of all to take care of yourself
married 14 years H 42 bomb 2/07 IDLYA D final 3 /09 M ow D ow
