This contempt is bad for S. Passive aggressive is still aggressive. It's bad for your sitch. It sacrifices control, which IMO is most probably the cause of your MR problems. I fear you have channeled this need for control onto your S. You feel in control when S is performing correctly and thinking correctly. What about accepting these people as they are?
I'm telling you because it does you no good to hear anything else. As your advocate.
I will pray that your heart is softened.
M 53 W 54, M since 98 D15, D19 8/2013 discovered EA, W maintained contact with OM until 10/14 7/2/17 W said she wanted S, 7/25/17 moved out of MBR 12/17 W says moving out 5/18, W still in home.
