you are correct in stating that D14’s IC use seeing this as a family therapy. I’ve been wanting to suggest to the IC that the dynamic between WW and D14 isn’t going to work as long as WW is having an A. And i think D14 has also mentioned that to the IC. WW doesn’t follow through with the advices that IC has given her. WW is i to this
The counselor needs to be filled in on what's been going on and how momma bear wants baby bear to lie to papa bear to cover up the fact momma bear is sleeping with someone in papa bears bed......and it's not papa bear!
Plus, that earlier post where she was saying if D14 didn't want to talk to her (mommy dearest) then she wasn't interested in speaking to her teenage daughter either, Great sign of maturity and corporation to help your daughter there, Mom. You may have to remind the therapist which one is the D and which is dear old mom.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
