HJ, definitely some red flags. Of course, this is why I was for you taking her up on her offer to quit this job back in the thick of your sitch. If nothing else than to avoid these kinds of thoughts on your part in the future. But water under the bridge. I still find it hard to believe she couldn't find another job, but whatever.
I think the wine downs should be verboten at this point.
M(53), W(54),D(19) M-23, T-25 Bomb Drop - Dec.23, 2017 Ring and Piecing since March 2018
