The conversation with your son makes me cringe. I look forward to the day when you have enough self-esteem not to need your son to compare you to your wife in order to make you feel good about yourself. That whole conversation was damaging.
Me: 44 H: 44 Kids: 20, 16, 16, and 10 Together/Married: 22 years H announced he was emotionally detached and considering D: 4/4/16 H announced he is going to try to stay and reconnect: 5/1/16