Wife is not who I married ... Pt6 pls help!

[LoneWlf]

update

I have not been here much because I have been really busy with the new job. There is so much to learn. S and I continue on our path -I recently got S a small accessory he wanted for his computer because he has not missed a day of school and has done all his homework and assignments. He was happy. My W came over yesterday for more clean up - S stayed upstairs in his room doing his homework the whole 2 hours. W seemed better and was even joking with me at times . We had some small talk about my new job, the dog but more detailed talks about S. I made sure to validate where I could and give her as much info about sIt seemed very relaxed no tension. She did bring back empty boxes for me from her move saying that I could use them when I move. Anyways no R talks. Just same old same old. Really no feelings either way - no butterflies no anger just blah. One other thing that happened was when I told S that W was coming over - I said he should not keep all this anger pent up inside. I also asked him why he choose to stay with dad? He said because he is mad at mom and that he could learn more from dad. I then asked - what has mom taught you all these previous years. He said " nothing" . I said what has dad taught you. He said to work hard - give it your all and never quit". Lastly I said If you are so mad at mom - is there room in your heart if she wanted to to come home? He said -yes I want my family back. So I left it at that. I'm still plugging away and doing my best. Thanks all for all your support- Blessings!