Yes I’ve asked him & it’s the shared history. I guess I’m the safety net, the link with the familiar past & I don’t think he wants to lose that. I have asked him how he thinks this friendship is going to work & he says he doesn’t know. Whilst the divorce is going through it makes sense to remain friends, afterwards who knows?
He text me yesterday apologising for not texting on his first day in his new job. I wasn’t expecting that! Stupidly flattered that he thought of me.
I read your recent post about your W coming round - that must have been hard for you. What boundaries have you set? Can you detach yourself enough so that you aren’t hurt?
M 1986 ILYBINILWY Jan 2016 Found out about affair May 2016. H 57yrs. OW 23 yrs younger. Separated Sept 2016
