I was recommended to read your thread. So I've read everything from pt 10 til now. Stuff was crazy for a while there. You've done a lot of things well, and I say that as a person, your career, DB'ing.
Why does your W talk to him at all? Why is your W still working there? It just doesn't make sense to me. Why tempt fate? I know she needs to have positive boundaries no matter where she may work, but this...I wouldn't be comfortable with it. I don't like that she is privatizing any part of her comms with another man, much less this man. After reading a newbie's thread today, where all 3 of the OM had befriended him, the LBS, before getting with his W, I am starting to wonder if the simple "smash the OM's face" approach is not the best. This doc sounds like a real piece of work. Does he not care about his reputation? Does his W know about all his antics?
H 34 W 29 BD 3/12/18 Divorce Busted Spring 19
It is not things that bother us, but the stories we tell ourselves about things.
