a lot of people say don't tell anyone about your sitch. I agree, with a caveat. You have to tell someone. My sister and mom know quite a bit, and that's maybe not a good thing if my W ever comes home for good. The rest of my friends are there for my GAL. In the beginning I wanted to whine and complain, and now I just want to enjoy myself.
I only told one friend locally about the affairs (7 years ago and January). Did not get into detail. She knows the woman, but only met her once, which I did not divulge. I did express my reluctance to share this with her in case we are able to R because her and her H are good friends of ours. Well, we used to socialize a lot. Obviously not now. I just felt an overwhelming need to share with somebody so I could have the support I needed in person. I trust her discretion. No one else in our circle of friends know he even moved out.
