Originally Posted by pain18
Originally Posted by kech

Im not going to initiate any contact. I keep thinking about what R2C said, woman fall in love with men in their presence, men fall in love with a woman in her absence. I pray thats true. I would love to find a way to not see him at all, but currently that isnt possible. But we do only see one another for about 2 minutes in and out of the house. It just seems like he takes my GAL as me just being ok with all this. I dont know. I know that doesnt change that I have to GAL for myself. I just am SO angry with him right now and hate how everytime i show my anger, instead of accepting responsibility, he has to become angry too.


kech, all valid points and concerns. I get it. But you have to remember,

GAL is for yourself. It's about improving yourself and making yourself happier, stronger, smarter, and more self-confident. Who gives a f*ck if your H is ok or not with this? You're not GAL for him.

I'll ask again smile...what awesome GAL thing do you have planned today? What special thing do you have planned for kech?


I am working for now until 5, and then I will go home with the baby and make her dinner, feed her, bathe her, then cook myself a nice dinner. Maybe ill go for a run. Or maybe ill go do something with the baby after work instead of going right home.