Originally Posted by kech

Im not going to initiate any contact. I keep thinking about what R2C said, woman fall in love with men in their presence, men fall in love with a woman in her absence. I pray thats true. I would love to find a way to not see him at all, but currently that isnt possible. But we do only see one another for about 2 minutes in and out of the house. It just seems like he takes my GAL as me just being ok with all this. I dont know. I know that doesnt change that I have to GAL for myself. I just am SO angry with him right now and hate how everytime i show my anger, instead of accepting responsibility, he has to become angry too.


kech, all valid points and concerns. I get it. But you have to remember,

GAL is for yourself. It's about improving yourself and making yourself happier, stronger, smarter, and more self-confident. Who gives a f*ck if your H is ok or not with this? You're not GAL for him.

I'll ask again smile...what awesome GAL thing do you have planned today? What special thing do you have planned for kech?

Last edited by pain18; 10/03/18 04:02 PM.

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